Saturday, 31 December 2011

Bye bye 2011!

No, the year cannot end without the wrap up of my life..

So I did a scroll back to my year end blog last year, and I'm actually quite amazed that for once most of my resolutions have been achieved..

1. I did get myself a new job - it doesn't count that I'm looking for another one now :p

2. I actually did lose the long waited 5kgs - it also doesn't count that I might have put them back on with all the chocolates and wine :p

3. I did settle all my credit card, I have zero balance for all my cards now :) - but of course I might have other loans to settle now to achieve the zero balance :p but at least I'm getting there!

4. and then there were other things like buying a watch, handbags etc.. Which I also did.. In fact I have done way lot of shopping this year with all the traveling..

5. And of course the resolution on the boyfriend side didn't go too well.. Oh well, that's kinda expected..

Anyway, in a nutshell, I must say 2011 was one hell of a eventful year.. Too many things happened this year..

I can't believe I have traveled to 7 different countries in one year.. Had a share of good and bad experiences.. Big lesson learned: it's not the place but the people that matter

And then there was that life turning break up moment.. That changed everything all together.. Some things will never be the same again.. Another lesson learned: never ever and ever trust men completely, ever!

Did the thing that I thought I hate the most pretty damn well.. And sucked so badly at what I believed was my one n only passion.. That's teaching and traveling :p

Anyway, the year is almost over now.. No point looking through the past.. Looking forward to 2012.. The year that is so promising.. I mean, end of the world is this year, no? So looking forward!! :)

Happy new year all! Thank you for being part of my year..

And special thanks to nemo and Anya for being there for me no matter what, what time and what nonsense.. Can't thank u both enough! I wonder how u people put up with me sometimes.. But no, that's not for you to wonder, I'm too old to make new friends ok? :p xoxo


Saturday, 24 December 2011

Lol, they never fail to amaze me..

Just received these messages from this one colleague of mine. Who refuses to talk to me now.

"Well you are smarter and in different level of thinking. Plus you are advanced in your social life. I'm lame,weird and got no life."

"You never failed to remind me, in almost every conversation we had."

"And, I can't change myself for ya."

" I don't match your intelligence and I don't need anyone to bring down my dignity"

All because I called him weird.. Lol.. Some ppl just can't deal with the truth.. And it's not like I ever said anything about how he was fat, ugly nor even mentioned a single word about his blue contact lenses :p

Some people just don't count their blessings :p

Worst, he acts like he's one hell of a hot stuff, so much confidence n shit.. Can't even take a single criticism nor understands sarcasm.. N has to rant like a emo bitch n refuse to talk..

But hey, thank you for making the work of getting rid of you easier for me..


Monday, 19 December 2011


You know the feeling, when you are so overwhelmed or disgusted with something till you can actually puke?

I'm feeling that right now..

But just can't decide which is the one I'm feeling.. Hmmph :(


Perhaps it's just the dry breads n sandwiches :p

Sunday, 18 December 2011


Out of boredom, I was reading some of previous blog postings.. Omg! I really can rant and ramble so much!!!

Seriously, what's wrong with me?


Friday, 16 December 2011

Horoscope for laughs !

Since we use to enjoy reading this and laugh, I decided to post the latest I found...I have highlighted what I absolutely agree =)

Pisces Woman (20th February to 20th March)

A Pisces female is full of womanly charms and at the very first glance, she will look like the girl every guy falls in love with. She looks totally vulnerable, very different from the modern, liberated girl of today. Almost every guy feels like taking her in his arms and protecting her from the big bad world. She is one of those women who stand behind their husbands and support them in every way they can. A Piscean female will never try to dominate her husband. Rather she will like it if you do the usual gallant gestures, like holding the door for her.

She wants her man to love her, protect her and take good care of her. She will lean on him completely, showing full confidence in his strength and abilities. This acts like a solid ego boost to almost every male. She will always be a patient listener, with whom you can share all your secret dreams, desires and hopes. She doesn't have a single masculine streak in her and if you are looking for the typical womanly traits, then Pisces girl is the one for you. She is totally feminine, in all the seasons and at all the places.  (pinkest defined :p)

She can sit adoringly with you, admiring your each and every quality. The warmth of her personality makes most the men relax in an instant and bask in the glory of their manhood. Enough for the initial falling in and courtship period! Now comes the time of marriage and life after that. (hahaha) A Pisces woman nags just like all the other women and she has a bad temper too. In her fury, she can turn bitterly sarcastic. The consolation here is that she is gentle for more periods, than she is nudging and prodding.

Infact, majority of the time, she will be yielding, wistful and all womanly. Her scathing tongue will become loose once in a while only. In case you have found the opposite characteristics profile in a Piscean woman, chances are that she suffered extremely harsh treatment at a very young age and the bitterness will be a result of that trauma only. She has certain subtleness around her and may also become a little deceptive at times. She is not mean; it's just that she feels like keeping certain things to herself only. (lol :p)

Then, the deceptiveness also helps her in keeping you interested in her. A Pisces female is very sentimental and even slightly harsh words can cause her to cry hours at end. You can easily imagine what will happen when you really hurt her feelings. She may imagine herself to totally worthless and incapable of the fighting spirit to survive. Then, you will have to assure her that she is appreciated for her great wisdom, empathy and vast understanding. You know that whatever you are saying is true; it's just a matter of convincing her about the same.

You will have to remove her doubts about herself or she may become too closeted in self-defense. A Pisces girl is very shy, emotional and vulnerable. To protect her susceptibility, she often wears a cloak of wittiness, frigidity and independence. She is afraid of exposing her true self, lest people hurt her in the process. She is a true romantic and secretly yearns for a person who will love her, cuddle her, hug her and make her feel loved and protected. As a mother she may be too permissive and find it difficult to teach discipline.

You may have to teach her the fine balance between controlling and pampering. A Piscean female will sacrifice her own dreams to realize the hopes of her children. (Awww..) She may not be good with finances, but will manage to save money if the situation so desires. She will remember the smallest incidents of your life, so you better remember her birthday and your anniversary. She may become dreamy once in a while, but then she will always be there with you, without being asked to. She is someone you will want to take care of, throughout your life!

Gemini Woman (22nd May to 21st June) - according to date given here :p

Marrying one Gemini woman is like living with two different wives. (first line itself cracked me up :p) Confused Don't be, we are just talking about her dual personality. She has a dual nature and is capable of displaying different personality traits at different points of time. However, your major task will be to get her to commit. She is so fidgety that it becomes very difficult for her to become deeply involved with one person or place. The mind of a Gemini female never settles down at one place and her thoughts are always wandering.

However, if you do manage to blend with her at the mental, spiritual as well as physical level, you will be introduced to a woman full of passion. (true :) In her youth, she is least likely to be bounded by a relationship or commitment. She may love your most irritating habits one minute and be extremely sarcastic about your new stylish haircut the very next. Maturity may bring a little bit stability in her. All this doesn't mean that Gemini women are not romantic at all. Infact, for them, romance is the one of the easiest means of communication.

Since they always have some thoughts to express, romance never goes out of their life. However, commitment is an entirely different term. A Gemini girl may love your intelligence, but she will also notice your lack of interest in creative arts. It is same the other way round too. Puzzled You should be, at times, even she is baffled by her own complex nature. She is so vivacious and full of life that with her, you will forget even the deepest of troubles. She has the ability to light up the most somber of surroundings with her presence.

A Gemini woman will be full of the small, sentimental gestures that keep alive the romance in a relationship. (true!!) She will always find new ways of telling you how much she loves you and will shower you with her alluring charm. She may act like a typical woman at one point of time, be a nervous wreck the other minute and engage in an intelligent conversation the very next second. She has the feminine charms, but she will never be clinging on to you. One thing that you will never find in a Gemini woman's characteristics profile is monotony and boredom. (agree!)

She finds something good in all the men she meets and then, wants a man who has all of those qualities. However, this can't be and then, she keeps longing for that perfect man!  :) She can be your best friend, your sports partner, your racing competitor and your lover, all at the same time. Just remember one thing, she is single-handedly giving you all this, so don't expect consistency from her. A Gemini female can look at other guys, even when she is sincerely in love with you. Change is in her nature and she has to learn to control her own behavior. Just make sure to keep her interested in you and she will remain totally devoted.

She will never be suspicious of you and will expect the same from you in return. You may be out till 3 in the morning and she won't even bat an eyelid. A Gemini girl will always respect your individuality and you will be required to do the same. She may forget to do the dishes every now and then, but you can have the most soul-satisfying conversations with her. She will keep your intellect as well as creativity stimulated. Motherhood will come naturally to her and she will make a happy and gay mother, who will respect the individuality of the children.

Gemini woman makes an excellent hostess and will charm the guests with her grace. They will be treated to the best of cuisine, that too in silver cutlery. She can easily get along with anyone, right from your boss to the peon of your office. With a Gemini wife, you will feel as if you are with a different woman every other day. lol :p When she wants to speak, she will speak and when she wants to fly, she will fly. You don't know how she flies; just listen to her imagination and you will know. She is full of hopes, desires and dreams and you are welcome to share them. Just make sure that you are with her when she needs you!


Capricorn Woman (22nd December to 20th January)

It is very difficult to define the characteristics profile of a Capricorn girl exactly. She can be the sexy babe on the beach or a scientist sitting in the laboratory, doing experiments that can save mankind. Whatever she is on the outside, when you look inside you will find a girl who looks for security, authority, respect and position. It is an entirely different matter how she seeks to achieve these goals. It may be as the president of a country or as the wife of an ambitious man. She seeks recognition and it doesn't matter how she gets it.

A Capricorn female is like that goat, which has to reach the top of the mountain. It doesn't matter what position she starts and how slowly she walks, she will be at the top much before those, who were running in front of her. She will do it with such subtlety that you wouldn't even know when she crossed all the milestones. She has her aims and ambitions, but they don't come before her family. She can enjoy the role of a wife or a mother as much as that of the CEO of the biggest MNC. However, you will have to provide her with equivalent respect and security.

Almost all the Capricorn women have immaculate etiquettes. They have an inherent sense of social elegance, modesty and conventional look. Though she looks completely calm, composed and balanced, don't think she doesn't have mood swings. She can become really depressed if she thinks that someone has misjudged or ill-treated her. In such a case, she may brood for months at a time. This stems from the fact that she does not feel as secure as she seems to be and fears being ridiculed or laughed at.

It is advisable not to tease a Capricorn girl; she may take it too literally. Though she may pretend otherwise, she seeks as much compliments as the other girls, probably even more. Show her that you appreciate her and make her feel secure. It will help her in opening up and showing her deliberately controlled passion. A Capricorn girl's personality doesn't include the trait of wishful thinking. She sees only those dreams that can be converted into reality. She enters a boat only when she knows that the waters are safe.

She will emphasize heavily on social etiquettes and you never see her serving the guests in anything but crystal cutlery. There will always be something fresh about her beauty and she will never ever be unattractive, even when she is wearing those hair-curlers. A Capricorn female will appear to be extremely confident, but inside she is quite unsure about her appearance. You will have to reassurance her time and again that she is attractive. She will always be honest and will expect the same from you.

At the same time, you will have to respect her family. Remember when you marry a Capricorn woman; you marry her family and relatives too. If ever you criticize her family members, better ensure that the criticism is constructive or she will never forgive you. Her love for you will never prevent her from taking care of her family. The plus point of this attitude is that she will be equally considerate towards your family too and give them the same respect as her own fellows. She will never mind if you cancel your holiday trip to pay for dad's operation..

The home of a Capricorn female will always be sparkling clean, that to with effortless ease. She is a realist and daydreaming is not her idea of passing the time. She has the ability to make even the dullest of surroundings looks warm and attractive, with her earthly passion. She will never stop you from dreaming, as long as there is bread in the house and the dreams have atleast some chances of turning into reality. As a mother, she will teach the kids discipline, economy, practicality, etiquettes and respect for elders. Make her feel loved, protected, needed and cared for and in return, she will support you in realizing your dreams and give you a deep, lasting love!


Thursday, 15 December 2011

That awkward moment, when...

...You are in a taxi, roads are blocked and traffic jam everywhere. The driver tries to explain something quite seriously in a language you don't understand... And when the only three words you can make out from the news going on and on in radio are "explosion, security and police".


Thursday, 8 December 2011


I haven't blogged in a awfully long time.. Well, I'm afraid of writing about good things.. As I'm always scared of jinxing things, which I'm very good at.. And to write about bad things, there's only the men stories that I don't wanna go back to.. (I still hate them all, btw)


I just got back from Paris 3 days ago.. N now I'm at the airport again waiting to board my flight to Brussels..

Life has never been more hectic.. N I did a crazy fly back across the world to spend 3 days at home.. Almost every single person I met, asked why on earth I came back.. Surprisingly even my mom asked me to stay.. And others simply decided I'm crazy..

But I'm glad I did.. Thanks Anya, for understanding and asking me to follow my heart.. I'm glad I asked you.. (But I'm sad that I didn't get to see you getting in shape :p )

Nevertheless, Paris was great, the most beautiful place I've ever been to.. Nice weather and extremely romantic city.. I would love to go back there again.. Hopefully not alone next time! :p

Now, let's hope Brussels will be kind to me, especially with the weather front ;)


Tuesday, 6 December 2011


It's the little things in life that make a big difference :) Like ....

.... When a friend that I've been missing for some time suddenly SMS's me to say she's been thinking about me too and wonders how I'm doing

.... When I finally can understand a schematic diagram of a low voltage switchgear

.... When Santa suddenly appears in the office at 3P.M. and hands out candies

.... When my other half rushes to pick up something I've dropped cause I'm not as flexible as I used to be, with my watermelon of a belly

.... When it's that time of the year to put up the Christmas tree and bake cookies