Sunday, 17 January 2010

At long last ...

Phhewww... can't believe I'm saying this but successfully I'm married! And what a journey it was! This blog has a few smatterings of my joys and pains of wedding planning throughout 2009, but everything paled in comparison when on the eve of my wedding, I got news that the church I was getting married in, was one of the churches attacked with molotov cocktails, allegedly due to the whole "Allah" controversy.

It seemed like everyone heard the news at the same time because calls started coming in from everywhere and until late at night, asking me if I'm getting married the next day. At that moment, all my fears of wardrobe malfunction, makeup artist not arriving on time, wedding car breaking down and many other Murphy's Law scenarios just flew out the window. Who in the world will think of a church getting bombed when they're getting married there the next day??

But God loves me. The bombs failed to explode and the church was still intact. When 09.01.10 arrived, all that months of planning and preparation and tears and sweat and joy was worth it.




As I was waiting at the entrance of the church to walk down the aisle, I could see the church was almost full and it just hit me right there that - 'Gosh! They're all here to watch ME get married!' I can honestly say, it was the happiest moment of my life to see all my friends and family at church smiling and waving as I walked down the aisle with Dad.





When my hand was placed in Nicholas hands, he gave me a huge smile and asked in a low voice, so only I could hear - 'Are you ready?' At that moment, I was as ready as I will ever be.




Maybe this is what childbirth is like. When mothers forget the excruciating labour pains as soon as they see their baby and all they can remember and feel is ecstasy. Because all I can remember and think of now is how beautiful and poignant the whole weekend was and the stress of wedding preparation has faded into history.
So should I say, "Wow, I can't believe it's finally over!".. Or "Wow, I can't believe it's finally beginning!"
:)
Anya

Tuesday, 12 January 2010

The day..

12 days down the year, and I already broke one of my new year resolutions.. to update the blog at least on a weekly basis.. but anyway, I'm freaking out today and there's no better way to let it out without appearing like a drama queen then to blog it here...

so yeah, im freaking out and feel like screaming fuck, fuck, fuck on top of my lungs!! why?? bcos its my fuckin bday tomorrow... sigh.... gone were the days I used to look forward like crazy for this day... now, every one msg that I get in fb wishing me happy bday, i'm swearing to myself.. n i've started sweating, my heartbeat is going up!! this is bad, ok??

so why exactly i am freaking out? my bf just called me stupid maybe bcos i think 28 is a BIG number.. like really.. just try say it out loud and u will know how big it actually sounds... and it's like so close to 30.. shit..

damn.. this aint helping.. i'm rubbing salt into my own wound.. i better stop here... so anyway, yeah its my bday tomorrow.. dun bother wishing me.. thanks..

-Lilo

Sunday, 3 January 2010

Bienvenido 2010!!

Wwwooowwwwweeeeee what a year indeed!

Most of 2009 was pretty much spent juggling my travels for work, a long distance relationship, wedding planning with that long distance relationship and weekends at Subang Parade with Lilo.

Kicking and screaming and laughing and crying and dragging myself and everyone else with me, I've crossed into 2010! Usually crossing into another year doesn't mean much except 'here we go again!' and 'shit, I'm another year older!'. I've stopped bothering with New Year's resolutions because usually I don't stick to them (=P) and than I decided if I want to change, why wait till the New Year? But this year is different. I've a New Year's resolution and I know I can stick to it. This year, my New Year's resolution is..... To Get Married!

Haha... ok..... that was lame! =P :)

Well it's 5 days to my wedding! I hope all that preparation throughout 2009 pays off. Right now, there's not much less do to except hope and pray that I can fit into my gown! Getting married right after Christmas and New Year is quite possibly the most challenging part with all that glorious food and drinks around.

It's crunch time now, making sure all the little details are ironed out. But watching how all our cousins and brothers and friends and family have got together to help us out - it's a good feeling. Even those who aren't physically here have been tremendous moral support.

Every bride should have a bunch of incredible crazzies like I do and bridezilas could be on their way to extinction.

Here's to starting the year with wonderful people in my life, a beautiful wedding and a fantastic honeymoon in Phuket!

-Anya-

Tuesday, 29 December 2009

What a year!

i'm on a week long break, finally!! i just wanted to relax like how i truly deserve and didn't wanna open the blog nor my work mail.. but i'm starting to forget how to relax these days... i'm still spending hours in front of my notebook... nway, in short i just wanted to join the bandwagon and write my last blog for 2009...

i dun know if it was a good year or bad... had my share of laughter, joy and buckets of tears...

January - started off the year with a road trip to Singapore with my bf.. that was fun... then followed by a surprise birthday party arranged by my bf... that was really sweet.. n nemo showing up for that party was my biggest gift :) also received a gorgeous gorgeous bouquet few days after... probably the sweetest month of the year..

February- insignificant month... really can't remember a shit..

March - finally celebrated my long postponed bday wif my best buddies... n they got me a voucher for a hair make over ;) haha... luved it... n thats when i got my curls!! and it was absolutely a love-hate relationship wif those curls...

April - was my trip to jogja!! it was a trip to remember for all the wrong reasons :p but bein with my other half, made it all fun n i have absolutely no regrets :) was a well deserved break in an unknown city... we still laugh to this day thinkin bout the incidents that happened...

May - another useless month... oh, i got my 2nd nephew.. and my boss went on a maternity long leave and I started ruling :)

June - hmmm... nemo's bday... had a small celebration at ole ole, pyramid...

July- Perhentian trip!! yayayayay!! the best trip of the year... was fun fun fun!! miss the blue blue sea, cute cute fishies n those colorful corals... the month that I learned to snorkel and enjoyed it to the bits!

August - got rid of my curls... and back to straightened hair... needed that extra 10mins morning sleep... the curls weren't worth my slp :p

September - that's when I was "suppose" to be in hanoi... sob sob... a trip that never came true... i cant remember exactly now, i guess somewhere around this time is when the gals and I went to melaka! that was another fun & FULFILLING trip... the food... oh my ;) hmm, or was this early in the year?? cant remem now..

October - it was diwali! the day that I look forward ONLY because, its legal to SHOP ;) luv it when everyone keeps askin, if i have done my shopping... hehe.. and the month that i got my TAT!!! btw, its all done now.. i am luvin' it ;)

November - anya's hens night!!! it was a fun day/night to be wif the gals all over again... went on a road trip to pahang, that was fun too...

December - month full of work, work, work!! day n night!! sucky month at work... everyday of cursing n swearing... on a good note, i got my 1st ever ipod ;) a surprise gift from my bf... besides that, this unexpected one week break!! blessing in disguise... n probably, a new hair-do in the next 2 days before the year ends :)

so yeah, that was my year... reading it again, i just realised, i've only listed the good stuff... can't be arsed to remember the bad ones... that's a gud sign, i hope! cos my resolution for next year is "screw/fuck/ignore the world"... i'm gonna learn to live for myself...

so, let's cheers for a better year! 2010, here i come...

muax,
Lilo :)

Tuesday, 15 December 2009

Unwanted advice

As the clock to my wedding date is ticking faster and faster, I find myself becoming a victim of well-meaning but unwanted advice from so many people. Some people even take the liberty of planning out my life for me.

And these are not even people that know me very well! They don't know my birthday, my hobbies, my tastes in clothes and worst still half of them don't even know my fiance's name until I give them my wedding invitation (why I have to give these people my wedding invitation is another story all together about weddings and Indians!)

I just thought I'd list down the advice I've got from all this wonderful people:

1. Have a baby next year
2. Have another baby the year after that
3. Send your babies to your parents/in-laws to babysit while you're at work
4. Send your babies to a nanny if you don't want to trouble your parents/in-laws
5. Move in with your in-laws after the wedding
6. Buy your own house after the wedding
7. Ask your husband to leave his (well paying) job (that he loves) and move to the city
8. Don't move away from the city
9. Don't get married until you can afford a house
10. A church wedding is not a church wedding until you wear a huge gown with a long, looonngg train
11. Why honeymoon in Phuket? Why not Koh Samui, Krabi or Bali?

I really don't see how me taking any of the advice above will enrich their lifes....or mine!

-A-

Thursday, 10 December 2009

2010, here I come..

Being the very ambitious person I am, I have come up with a list of things I would like to achieve in the coming year.

1. Chanel handbag
2. Issey Miyake perfume
3. Nokia N97 or iPhone
4. DKNY or Guess power glasses
5. Giorgio Armani sun glasses
6. Play station 3 or 2 – over due gift for my bf
7. Fossil wallet
8. Trip to Hanoi (better work this time!)
9. Trip to Bali/Cambodia (again! :) )

and maybe a…
10. new job

and some…
11. peace

By: ‘Lilo

** The list is in no particular order

Wednesday, 9 December 2009

:-/

I never thought I'd feel this way, but these days, work is my escape, my sanctuary of peace.

Work itself is crazy, busy and sometimes I feel like I'm going out of my mind. But, amazingly I'm at peace.

Unlike home. Hmm...can I even call it home? Isn't home somewhere you can unwind after a hard day's work and relax? If that's the definition of home, than where I'm staying isn't home.

If I could wish for one thing and have it come true, it would be that I can move out of my house and have my own home.

Sigh...

-A-